Love And Hate By Raymond Carver - 955 Words

The notion of Love and hate is a complicated idea. They can be experienced and explained differently depending on who is answering. In the short story, â€Å"What We Talk About When We Talk About Love,† by Raymond Carver, love is portrayed through three different lenses: Terri’s, Mel’s, and Nick’s perspective. Correspondingly, in William Shakespeare’s poem, â€Å"Sonnet 130,† the speaker has a unique way of describing his mistress, for most people would believe this to be hate, not love. The theme of love and hate are uniquely represented in â€Å"Sonnet 130† and â€Å"What We Talk About When We Talk About Love,† in which love and hate are shown in its reality. In many cases, love is misrepresented and not shown in its reality. According to The Human Experience, by Richard Abcarian, Marvin Klotz, and Samuel Cohen, â€Å"The rosy conception of love presented in many popular and sentimental stories does not prepare us for the complicated reality we face† (859). Thus in many stories and poems, love is not truly portrayed for what it really is. However, in â€Å"Sonnet 130,† Shakespeare does the opposite of this. The speaker states, â€Å"I have seen roses damasked, red and white / But no such roses see I in her cheeks† (5-6). In most love poems, the speaker would be stating that his lover’s cheeks are as red as roses. Despite this, Shakespeare is basically poking fun at those poems due to the fact that it is not normal for a woman to have bright red cheeks. Another example of this can be shown when the speakerShow MoreRelatedEssay about Raymond Carver (what We Talk About When We Talk About Love)892 Words   |  4 PagesMcGinnis of â€Å"What We Talk About When We Talk About Love† seems like that one guy that everyone seems to know. He stands out from others; he’s unique. You either love him or hate him. Mel is very much like one of my good friends. They are both very individualistic and hey are both annoying drunks. 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